Comments for Mike Harder http://mikeharderministries.com Calling People Back to God Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:44:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Podcasts by mikeharder http://mikeharderministries.com/podcasts/comment-page-1/#comment-1249 mikeharder Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:44:15 +0000 http://mikeharder.wordpress.com/?page_id=37#comment-1249 Mike, It sounds like you have had a very difficult journey. It sounds to me like your wife has abandoned you and moved on. It is up to you to see if she is willing to reconcile and pursue a relationship with you. I think you need to make sure that your heart is in the right place and you have fully exhausted all options for reconciliation before you move on. If she has no desire to return to the relationship and you guys move forward with a divorce I would be really careful to guard your heart that you dont fall into sexual sin or become filled with anger or resentment. That being said, if the marriage is at an end and the divorce has become final, the Bible has no restrictions on remarriage. In fact the Bible prefers that people get married if they still have passion and desire not to be alone. I think that the way you pursue your future spouse and are a one woman man who shepherds your wife well is the defining characteristics of whether you are going to be honoring God or not. God wants you to be someone who honors him and if that is the posture of your heart, he will be pleased with you. Mike,
It sounds like you have had a very difficult journey. It sounds to me like your wife has abandoned you and moved on. It is up to you to see if she is willing to reconcile and pursue a relationship with you. I think you need to make sure that your heart is in the right place and you have fully exhausted all options for reconciliation before you move on. If she has no desire to return to the relationship and you guys move forward with a divorce I would be really careful to guard your heart that you dont fall into sexual sin or become filled with anger or resentment. That being said, if the marriage is at an end and the divorce has become final, the Bible has no restrictions on remarriage. In fact the Bible prefers that people get married if they still have passion and desire not to be alone. I think that the way you pursue your future spouse and are a one woman man who shepherds your wife well is the defining characteristics of whether you are going to be honoring God or not. God wants you to be someone who honors him and if that is the posture of your heart, he will be pleased with you.

]]> Comment on Podcasts by mike http://mikeharderministries.com/podcasts/comment-page-1/#comment-1247 mike Wed, 28 Mar 2012 02:41:56 +0000 http://mikeharder.wordpress.com/?page_id=37#comment-1247 I want to know will God bless me if I was to get remarried, I got married to a lady that was controlling and didnt like my son she left me with no food or money to eat after I paid the . She didnt show me love and,I messed up by marrying her on the condition she would change along with being pressured by her. We have,been separated over 4 years now and the love Is gone. She has moved on and has little communication with me. I want to know will God bless me if I was to get remarried, I got married to a lady that was controlling and didnt like my son she left me with no food or money to eat after I paid the . She didnt show me love and,I messed up by marrying her on the condition she would change along with being pressured by her. We have,been separated over 4 years
now and the love Is gone. She has moved on and has little communication with me.

]]> Comment on Reflections on Israel by Ridley http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/reflections-on-israel/comment-page-1/#comment-745 Ridley Mon, 25 Jul 2011 16:58:26 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=759#comment-745 Amazing!! Love the pictures. Can't wait to hear more from you about the trip. Amazing!! Love the pictures. Can’t wait to hear more from you about the trip.

]]> Comment on Day of Rest in Tel Aviv by Mrs. McGoo http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/shabbat/comment-page-1/#comment-694 Mrs. McGoo Wed, 20 Jul 2011 23:30:01 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=742#comment-694 "There is a huge value in choosing to cease from our labors to reenergize and focus on God, family and life." Amen. “There is a huge value in choosing to cease from our labors to reenergize and focus on God, family and life.” Amen.

]]> Comment on Rebecca’s Post in Tel Aviv by Mrs. McGoo http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/rebeccas-post-in-tel-aviv/comment-page-1/#comment-693 Mrs. McGoo Wed, 20 Jul 2011 23:28:11 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=746#comment-693 Thank you for sharing Rebecca! What a reminder that we profess Christ not only in our words but our actions and deeds also! That's encouraging and humbling all in one!! Thank you for sharing Rebecca! What a reminder that we profess Christ not only in our words but our actions and deeds also! That’s encouraging and humbling all in one!!

]]> Comment on The Spirit is Moving by Mrs. McGoo http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/the-spirit-is-moving/comment-page-1/#comment-692 Mrs. McGoo Wed, 20 Jul 2011 23:25:21 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=750#comment-692 PRAISE BE TO GOD! Thank you for sharing specific ways God is using you and the team!!! PRAISE BE TO GOD!
Thank you for sharing specific ways God is using you and the team!!!

]]> Comment on Nick’s Post by Mrs. McGoo http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/nicks-post/comment-page-1/#comment-691 Mrs. McGoo Wed, 20 Jul 2011 23:17:23 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=755#comment-691 what a great reminder Nick regarding the POWER of prayer and the need for total dependency on Christ alone... we're just the vessel! thanks for sharing! what a great reminder Nick regarding the POWER of prayer and the need for total dependency on Christ alone… we’re just the vessel! thanks for sharing!

]]> Comment on The Spirit is Moving by Sam http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/the-spirit-is-moving/comment-page-1/#comment-674 Sam Tue, 19 Jul 2011 16:44:37 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=750#comment-674 A-Mazing! Glory to God. A-Mazing! Glory to God.

]]> Comment on Journey Up The Mount of Olives by Melissa http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/journey-up-the-mount-of-olives/comment-page-1/#comment-659 Melissa Fri, 15 Jul 2011 18:17:37 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=718#comment-659 All of Grace Pointe is getting the opportunity to read the blog. You have been so faithful with postings. It's refreshing to read from all the different team members perpective & personal experience. It makes me feel a bit like being there. Grace Pointe continue to pray for all of you as the hit the streets of Tel Aviv to share the Gospel. All of Grace Pointe is getting the opportunity to read the blog.
You have been so faithful with postings. It’s refreshing to read from all the different team members perpective & personal experience. It makes me feel a bit like being there.

Grace Pointe continue to pray for all of you as the hit the streets of Tel Aviv to share the Gospel.

]]> Comment on Journey Up The Mount of Olives by mikeharder http://mikeharderministries.com/2011/07/journey-up-the-mount-of-olives/comment-page-1/#comment-652 mikeharder Fri, 15 Jul 2011 08:22:03 +0000 http://mikeharderministries.com/?p=718#comment-652 We wish you were here too. It would have been a blast having you along. Hope the family is doing well! We wish you were here too. It would have been a blast having you along. Hope the family is doing well!

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